My 9 day old fed baby has terrible gas?

as in he is farting and i feel so bad for him...his tummy rumbles and he gets upset. how can i help him with it?! when he poops it is like projecting out! he has pooped across the room! he pushes out a fart and he poops at the same time...its still yellow and seedy which is normal...any suggestions?! also he breathes really fast and hard sometimes...is this normal? and he spits up my milk all the time! and he doesnt always burp...i try so hard to get him to but he just wont :( also what should he be sleeping in...we keep our house around 72 degrees...sorry for all the questions...im a first time mom if you cant tell! lol