I just need some advice, coming out, dating..all that good stuff?

Ok, let's keep it simple. The next time he asks to go away and "chill," tell him, " You do know I'm gay, don't you? Does that make a difference? " Take your ques from what he says and go for it if he is receptive. IF now, pick up your sticks and say, "Next." We've all been there, but the wise man takes the bull by the horns and doesn't just sit there waiting for the next thing to happen. Men LOVE a guy with confidence! So buy some and go to town! GW